Family Ties

"Family isn't about whose blood you have. It's about who you care about." - Trey Parker and Matt Stone, South Park

As many of us are now gathering with our families to celebrate various holidays and vacation times, I thought it a good time to reflect on what family really means. So often the term family is used without consideration for the actual meaning. Obviously it refers to the nuclear group of blood relatives with whom we live. Often, it also refers to the larger blood relatives distributed about the world. It includes those we love most, even if not related by blood (i.e. spouses). It includes our beloved animal friends in many homes, too.

How do each of you define family? I particularly challenge readers to think about the conventional wisdom that families share common beliefs and values, as I'm not sure that is true - siblings often walk different roads through life, spouses come from different ethnic backgronds, and I have met very cases where someone sees eye-to-eye with their in-laws.

As you gather together around a warm fire or tasty meal this holiday season, take a look around. Ask yourself why you sit with the people you see. Think about who else you might wish were with you. Reflect on how much you care for your loved ones, your family, your friends, and all humanity. For remember, we are all one family, and we must all stick together.

Happy Holidays to all!